I don't know what to do anymore

I have sent at least 20 unanswered emails to her in the last month--and countless unanswered emails over the last year. I have not heard a word from her in a month. A month ago she actually said she would be leaving the demob site and would be on her way home.

Clearly something happened.

But I have been patiently waiting in total ignorance.

Last week, I emailed her parents. No answer.

Now I notice that someone transferred money in and out of our joint account on October 12th. She has not used that account in 8 months. It may be her parents who did that and made a mistake when they were transferring money between her other accounts at the bank. I cannot have her removed from the account without her signature, so I have been waiting for her to come home so that the account can be closed.

Since she isn't answering my emails, I have no way of knowing if she is even getting them. I sent her a Hallmark "Support Our Troops" e-greeting card today. If and when she views it I will at least get a notification.

I am really angry right now. I have done my best to be patient, but I am at the end of my patience right now. (I believe I have said that before.)